Of course, each meet-up is different but a dear friend of mine who was adopted sought out her birth mother. The woman turned out to be a real estate broker in Palm Springs, married with three kids. At first, my friend had secret meetings with her birth mother, as the woman had never revealed this history to her husband and other children. But after a few years, she told her family and my friend soon had several pleasant half siblings and much love. (Her adoptive parents-wonderful-were deceased by then). Go for it!