You are quite the romantic (and I mean that in the best possible way) and I admire that. You remain open to love, Greg. I always tell friends that I'd rather meet a man who has been married five times rather than one who has never married. I have never publicly written about my marriage, as I think it would disturb my childen, were they to see it. I will only say here that I offered unconditional love for twenty years and then overnight learned that I was married to a stranger. Thank you for this beautiful essay.